The father-in-law should go home with a long gap, but should stay a few days after leaving. Going through the gap increases the caress, and if you stay a few days that caress can be enjoyed. But before enjoying the full caress, the father-in-law has to say goodbye to the workplace. Meanwhile, Neera is not feeling well at all. He wanted to stay a couple more days, but did not tell me. I saw him and understood. But here I am incapable, so the two of them have to get out of the busy city, for the purpose of busy life.
Meanwhile, today is the 21st of February. A memorable day for Bengalis. As well as mourning. Of course, mourning on the streets is not a burden. Young men and women are walking in colorful Punjabi and sari. There is no sign of mourning. But nowadays any day I see blood, fresh blood! Blood that has turned black in the backyard, glistening in the sunlight. This blood calls people, shouts loudly, people do not respond. People just respond to flowers, people just respond to songs. People grow up to be self-absorbed.
On the way to Dhaka, I got up at Salma Apur's house. This is the first time I have come to Salma Apur's house after marriage. Apu was surprised to see us at first. We were not supposed to come. Neera will see you before she leaves. Meanwhile, I am just trying to hide my face, it is my responsibility to show my face after what happened to my sister after meeting her before marriage Nira got into the story as soon as she got Apu. Meanwhile, Salma Apur has a son and a daughter sitting around me. It's a shame I forgot the names of the two little ones. This is one of the problems of marriage, the names of the sisters-in-law cannot be remembered properly, the little ones on it! After I got married, a sister-in-law of the service came and said to me, “Let me see, what is my name? It's my wedding day, but I greet you. " I looked at him the way our math teacher once came and looked at me. He made me stand up and said, "I saw you today for the first time in six months."
However, I could not name the sister-in-law that day. I was very embarrassed in the crowd. Thinking that it could be repeated even today, I call them 'little' without a name. Again, I do not understand that I do not know their names. On the other hand, Dulabhai is in a very different mood today. I like him in a natural way, a different kind of sincere person. But the thing I noticed today after entering the house is that everyone is speaking pure Bengali and not using a single English word. Since his arrival, Dulabhai has been giving important speeches on language, which means that he has a lot of importance for Mother Language Day. Dulabhai called Nira at the end of the speech, Nira was behind the curtain. Aiming at the two of us, Dulabhai taught us today's rules. It would be wrong to say today, he wants this process to continue from today. The process is pure Bengali practice. The rule is to speak completely pure Bengali, no words can be used in other languages.
-Dulabhai, what if I use English for everyday words, especially for electronic devices or something like that?
Dulabhai is looking at me angrily because I have already used many English words. But if I want to speak Bangla of electronic device, I have to sit in silence for at least a while. I have to say then thoughtfully. Meanwhile, seeing that Dulabhai was silent, I had to open the dictionary on my phone and search.
-Can we use the English names for electrical devices?
I heard the sound of laughter from inside. This is definitely Nira, her smile is very familiar to me, as well as Salma Apur has a light mixture, maybe, a pair of smiles can be heard. But my words did not provoke Dulabhai's laughter. He remained so serious.
-Electrical devices must also have Bengali names.
- Then you have to go around with the dictionary. Whenever I get stuck, I will tell you through search.
I bit my tongue, I made a mistake again.
-I mean, I'll go around with the dictionary. It is on the mobile. You just have to look in the dictionary.
Mobile Bangla is probably mobile. What a dilemma. However, Dulabhai is somewhat satisfied. He has managed to get us in line a lot. After that Dulabhai went up with the concluding speech on language. And I sat down with the two little ones. I still can't remember anyone's name.
Everyone is eating quietly at the dinner table. No one is talking. Speaking of which, there seems to be a strong possibility of arrest. I spoke in such a hostile situation.
-Dulabhai, your initiative is really nice! Great!
-Yes.
Appreciated, I didn't even get the thanks. This time maybe we have to criticize a little.
-But one thing is for sure, there are many English words which have no replacement in Bengali. What will happen then?
-The word replacement but in Bengali there are replaceable words.
This time I ate a bamboo with great speed. Dulabhai gave the ‘Thug Life’ look. I was ashamed but pretended to hide my shame.
- Yes, sorry. But think, some words are really hard to replace. For example, nowadays the word 'tension' has become a Bengali word. If you say ‘worries’ it will sound rather strange. When someone says 'I'm going to class' instead of 'I'm going to class', people will probably catch him and beat him. If I say that the teacher did not give a 'lecture' in the class, then the name of the teacher can be spoken of, what does this teacher say without teaching! If the words 'driver', 'contractor', 'helper' and 'lever' were replaced by 'driver', 'contractor', 'collaborator' and 'worker' respectively, what would it sound like if you started saying that? ? But these are written in pure Bengali at the time of writing. The conventional word is said only when speaking. Because otherwise you will not be able to communicate with someone who may not know how to read. He may not know that the word 'contractor' basically means 'contractor'. If you want to go to a furniture store and buy 'Kedara', people will look at you for a long time. If you go to the electricity office and look for where to pay the 'electricity bill' without paying the 'current bill', you will be disappointed. Just because I use a couple of English words doesn't mean I don't love my mother tongue. I do this so that I can keep in touch with people. But I certainly oppose those who use English words unnecessarily. Those who prefer Hindi or English as their mother tongue Bengali. Nowadays you go somewhere to work, somewhere to give an interview, if you don't know English, you can't communicate in English, you will be fired. You won't have a job, that's the reality. Change is needed in those places. English medium is taught in any institution at university or undergraduate level where our state language is Bengali. How can a student who studies English all day, listens to Sir's lectures, be able to communicate in complete Bengali? This is not his fault alone. Dulabhai needs change in these places. Teaching in the mother tongue is important, it is also necessary to talk to each other, but that is not to say that the use of terminology has been banned. But now the use of mother tongue is being exaggerated. Even if the child has an Islamic name, a group of people come out. Having Arabic names, saying different Arabic words like 'Alhamdulillah', 'Zayakallah' also makes them anti-Bengali culture. Dulabhai will not be able to give air to their sails. We need to be careful.
I stopped saying the words in one breath. Everyone is sitting with rice lokma in their hands, and everyone is smiling. I am happy to be able to show my superpower after a long time. Dulabhai thought very deeply, then began to eat rice quietly. There was no second talk at the dinner table.
I was a little upset at night. It happens occasionally. People just admit to being unnecessarily upset. If you get married in many ways, if you become a person of love, maybe it will not happen again. Maybe there will be only happiness and happiness in life. Mental turmoil will probably end! However, these thoughts are simply unrealistic. Even after marriage, you get upset, depression can be suppressed even if the person you love is by your side. Perfect life does not exist in this world, it is in paradise. A very interesting feature of Jannat is that you will not be upset there. For those who suffer from severe depression, this feature of paradise is very tempting. Meanwhile, seeing that I was upset, Nira started saying different things in an attempt to make me feel better. I do this every day, when he has swollen cheeks. He often tells me one thing,
“You are my laughing stock. Once this box is opened, I can't help laughing. ”
Really. My job is to make him laugh, a lifelong responsibility. I can do this very well. When I would sit in the chat room of friends, I would make everyone laugh. They used to say, if I was there, no one would be upset. I am getting the benefit of that quality well after marriage. Girls probably don't take much. Her husband will take care of her a little, will be kind to her, will make her laugh when she is upset, this is a lot for them! Oh yes, but I don't work for free. In return I see the smile of the moon, sitting alone, hiding from the whole world. When he smiles, I think this is life, this is life. Just keep smiling, keep the clock running, let the time go by like this.
Today all of a sudden my laughter box has run out of laughter, so Nira is trying to recharge. I was very sad to see. And that Mayawati, where does not become Maya? I told her, "Nira, translate an English line into Bengali!" Nira said enthusiastically, "Say say say!"
I said, "Let's cuddle!" Nira thought for a second. When he realized, he punched me in the arm with his fist. And I said to myself, "O love of English, or love of Bengali, whoever you are, never run out!"
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